"To be or not to be, that is the question"      Hamlet

To be: "Suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune"? (Hamlet) Think on this: First, get real. Nobody can sort life's problems by themselves. Since you, or your mob, are not doing so well on your own, find understanding, outside support. Second, get really radical. Don't conform to pressures to think in a box - you could literally end up in one, stone cold dead. Think beyond the flesh and mere physical death. You need to bury your old self and its pain, without risking your spirit for eternity. There is only one way to do this. (And it's not meditation or religious mumbo-jumbo.) How can anybody understand? What's all this about flesh and the spirit? More

Not to be: "Take arms against a sea of troubles"? (Hamlet again) Think on this: In suicide, you may succumb (surrender) to the very troubles you take arms against, for you cannot kill your eternal spirit. You change your location but not yourself or even your underlying problems. Sartre (famous French philosopher) said "Hell is other people". He was wrong. The most ancient book of wisdom in the world makes clear that hell is yourself in the absence of love. In killing yourself, you could plunge your eternal spirit into that loveless hell - forever. Don't believe in hell or eternity? Like the idea of being reincarnated? More

	Seeking our own path, we don't want our story to spoil anybody else's, or anybody else to spoil our own story. We can no longer see our lives as part of one great story, that offers hope; that explains the way things are.
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